I retired about 2 years ago. Then earlier this year ended up divorcing which I hadn’t expected.
We split finances equitably and were fortunate enough to both leave with our pensions intact and “comfortable” and enough cash for each buying a smaller
What worries me is that whilst together we had considerable savings on top of our pensions. So, although we didn’t “save” money out of our pensions we felt secure that we had money for emergencies, new car replacements, kids events (weddings, grandkid arrival etc), and other big expenses for the rest of our lives. I know this is way more than most people have but being in that situation allowed us to retire early
Now I’m separated I don’t have much savings at all. And what I have is all the money I’ll ever have now going forward. It is making me a bit Anxious.. Whilst I’m trying to save around £150 per month form my pension income at that rate it would take me 2 years plus even to pay for a replacement boiler etc. It feels pretty exposing as I’ve not been in that situation for some years, and at the time I was working so there was always the opportunity of increasing my salary etc
So, how much savings do other have in retirement as their rainy day fund as equivalent of months pension or lump sum ? How comfortable or anxious are you with that? Do others fret about this, that any savings are all the money you’ll ever have to cover all your significant liabilities now