You are wise and I hope you can help me. My very good and old friend is having a bad time. Her relationship with her DP is in crisis - although they have not officially split up yet. I think there is still some hope for a reconciliation, she doesn't seem to think so though. They have no kids. I don't see her as often as I did before I had dd, so we're not as close as we used to be. I just don't know what to say or do to help her. I know she is in pain and is very sad but she says she doesn't want any company. (I think especially company with someone who she has called a 'smug married' in the past)
What can I do or say to help her? What shouldn't I do?