Some of u may remember i posted a few wks back abt how i 'felt like a failure'....as i am now a lone parent cos i suspected my dd was being abused by her father (my ex).
The update is that SS are involved again, new SW this time round had a meeting with her and dd.
Went on for along time, told her everything that has happened and what i have done in terms of 'protecting dd and getting her help..i.e.play therapy'
SW asked her if she wanted to give anyone a msg from dd...she said yes 'to tell daddy to stop hurting me.'
When asked what she meant by hurting?
DD said he punches and scratches her.
I have never witnessed him doing this..smacking yes but not scratching and punching.
SW took this down as disclosure, and has arranged to see him wednesday. i spoke to him sat. He sounded worried and how he 'wanted to speak to me first so as not to say the wrong thing'..in terms of whether he has contact or gives money.
I told him to say how it is. I have nothing to hide.
Anyway he is begginning to stash money away and claims that his wallet with numerous credit cards has "DISSAPPEARED"....how convenient.
I have a funny feeling that he may try to do a runner back to his home country.
He claims that he is saving up to get a 1 bedroom flat.
Should i be worried abt him doing a runner?
Sorry for the long post.