Hi
I have been separated a year now and am a single parent. been to relate both together and apart and my relate councellor who met him basically said to me that i am wasting my time with him and i will "flourish" if i make it final. we have been together 13 yrs, married 5. child 2.7.
he is highly qualified and has a really good job. since becoming a mum and working part time he just has no respect for me or my opinions. the relate councellor told him that, to which he argued with her. he walked out with out telling me renting a flat.
he just dismisses me and shakes his head like i am a child. yet last night i got a text saying he loves me but love isnt bullet proof and it is too damamged. today i went to work and have been invited out this afternoon. 1st time in ages. i got dressed up and when son wakes up he wil be coming too. when he droppedson off, he looked me up and down and just looked blank. he didnt say have a nice time he didnt seem bothered. i dont think it is a case of he is now showing it, i just really think he isnt. i got house valued last week. it makes me son angry and frustrated then sad and devestated. it is just killing me but i have lived like this for a year.i am tempted to file for divorce but am petrified of the process.any advise welcome x