Wondered other peoples views on this and if all men are the same??
My boyfriend of two years, both with previous marriages still hides our relationship from his family, his ex is aware that he is seeing someone and knows her kids spend time with both of us, and although i know she's not happy about it has done nothing to interfere and is just making sure he does what he needs to about the kids, I also understand that and know that they come first.
I'm now pregnant and just for once want to be perhaps a bit more important than anything else going on, its probably heightened emotions and me feeling weepy but I just feel like all he's bothered about is how his parents are going to react to it all.
They are fairly religious and don't think him and his ex should have split up, they speak to his ex all the time and all treat him like some small child, he lets them, he plays on his depression and plays the victim I guess so they don't all have a go at him.
His business when down the pan 4 months ago and he's not working, drinking alot every night and has starting taking coke again at the weekends, he's 40 and I feel he needs to grow a set of b**ls and deal with everything and his life choices now.
I have had 2 years of his on and off depression which is made worse by the drinking but then feel guilty if i think about leaving it all behind and chalking it up to experience.
I'm going mad....!!!