dh not speaking and getting more and more angry

[gettinginapanic]

dh has not been speaking to me since friday night when I got back from work.
I asked him what was wrong yesterday and he ignored me/told me to "get out of here I'm not speaking to you!"
Today I just spoke to him and he just said"Shut up"in front of everyone.

Last night after being stonewalled I told him to leave but he won't leave and now I am feeling a bit scared as he seems so angry.

I am not sure if he has looked at my computer or something {I have a solicitor number on there]or what the hell's going on.

I just want to know someone is listening and if anything happens I can ask for advice.

This is no good for your child so when he is at work tomorrow you need to get out.

well I cancelled the meal I had booked for tonight ~ I asked him all day did he want to go;no reply so now obviously I am not going after all this but he didn't even want to take any of the older dc out to eat,so no surprise there then.

I wish I knew what to do~this is my house,with all the dc stuff in,I don't want to leave it and neither do they

If I phone the solic back I don't know if that is way over the top to force him out?He is a man of high local standing and I just can't work out what to do

Hig local standing? Wtf, it means nothing when he is being an arse to you and your kids.

I know but how do I get him out without the court he hasn't committed a crime or anything

Someone who stops speaking to his own wife is a nutter or so emotionally immature he should not be in an adult relationship.

Either way, you need to leave.

What an example for your kids...they will think it's normal. It isn't, he's mad as a hatter, really.

could you ring his parents, siblings, best mate and tell them he's not talking and ask if they know why?

You either carry on as you are to stay in the house or you leave and take the kids to family and get yourself a smaller place. Is the house really worth living like this?

Is he having a breakdown of some sort?? This is sounding scary and unsafe for both you and your children.

high local standing? are you for real?

The ones of "high local standing" are often the most difficult. They are more concerned about their public image than how they treat their immediate family...

My exH did this over a prolonged period, and it was scary. It also focused all my attention on him while he was doing it, as he shot me dirty looks constantly -- I mean bizarrely angry and hostile, contorted expressions on his face, as if he was having an imaginary screaming fit with me and hurling loud insults at me, in total silence. He remains a really, really angry man. It is a silent tantrum. Anyone capable of this is capable of more.

Please call WA the minute he leaves for work next, or while he's out today, and call your solicitor asap. Try all your friends, family, etc. and see if someone can come over, or take your DCs.

You may be able to call the police and say you think he needs an urgent psychiatric evaluation and you're very afraid.