My mil has never really liked me that much, she desperatley tried to sabotage our wedding day and things got worse from then on, I have always been polite and respectful towards her as she is my DH mother, I thought she would see me differently once our first son was born, but that was so wrong, she questioned if my DH was the real dad when DS was 3 days old infront of us all. After inviting her over numerous times to get to know my DS, and pulling my hair out behind closed doors!! I am expecting again. However, MIL had massive rant at me on phone as she thinks Im petty for being upset at fact there are no pics of me at all in her house. She was unaware DH was listening and told me how she hated me and never wanted anything to do with me again. I pointed out it meant she would miss out on her grandkids and she said she didnt care. I know she is a bit weird and am a little relieved at the thought of never seeing her again, but I cant help feeling that my kids will miss out on a grandparent (mine all died when i was little) and feel for my DH as shes his mum. Was it my fault? I dont really know what to think or do for the best!