To cut a long story short, my sil and I had a huge falling out. It was obvious that there were issues beforehand as she brought up things from the past and basically said she hated me and never wants to speak to me again.
I was always civil to her though I did think she was really lazy and it would annoy me when she would sit on her arse while her kids made a mess and my mum and I would be tidying up and looking after her kids, feeding them, entertaining them etc
and I was often frank with her about it and would tell her to help out.
Anyway, we had a huge row one day. She swore at me and called me a fkng bitch and slut (which anyone would tell you, I am definitely not). I just told her that she was very eloquent, especially infront of the kids and didn't say anything else.
We're supposed to be having family get together tomorrow and I really don't want to see her. Its going to be very awkward and I know for a fact that she'll be blanking me anyway. I have tried to talk to her but she just screamed at me.
I've gone past the stage of wanting to sort things out and actually feel quite enraged.
I can't get out of this thing and wonder if anyone has any tips on how to deal with my feelings and with the get-together (I don't think I'll have to see her much after this)
Thanks and sorry its so long