Not sure if this is the right place to put this. Myself and ex have been split up for about 4 years,but I always wanted to get back with him until early this year. We were still stupidly sleeping together occasionally, him coming back whenever he fancied it.
He hit me once, about 3 1/2 years ago. He was drunk one night, came into my house and attacked me in front of our (then)2 /12 yr old daughter. I pressed charges against him, he got fines and community servive, and I had an injuction against in.
However, I gave in again within a year, and let him back in my life again. Idiot aren't I?
Last year he got prosecuted for fighting with another man, who he hit in a certain way and dislocated his jaw. He got sent to prison for 10 months.
He came out in December, and professed to have changed, blah blah blah, usual crap, bought into it for a couple of months. I finally clicked that he was a loser back in March this year, and started dating again- noone serious, literally just dating. Obviously he hates it, and has now decided he wants me back. Cue a lot of name calling, usual crap. I changed my mobile number, but still have the same home phone and DD now has a contact mobile for staying in touch with him. I have been in touch with CSA, who are now going to take £5 a week from his benefits. I'm guessing thats whats set him off this morning. I have had 4 phone calls at 4.40 this morning. As soon as I answered He said "I'm gonna kick your fucking head in.". I put the phone down on him, he tried ringing back but I didn't answer.
So what do I do now? He's still on parole, so if I ring and report him there is a chance he will get sent back to prison. Not my problem, I know, but do I want to be responsible for that? Now I'm nervous he's going to turn up at work too, and cause problems.