give up!

[packbell]

Where do you draw the line?

I fell out with a friend nearly six months ago bascially she got involve with an arguement between me and another friend which was not my doing.

I tried really hard to put things right between us but it all fell on deaf years, I feel so sad because I thought of her as a sister are children played together loads we were really close for 6yrs.

I see this person every morning up at school we do not speak.

Anyway been to the park after school tonight she turned up with her hubby and kids, we did not speak at all the children played together which was nice.

I really wanted to say hello how are you? but a little voice in my head was saying I had tried enough.

Should I of tried again?

any advice?

It all sounds quite petty and school girly to me, but as I dont know the whole situation I cant really give advice.
Why did you fall out? What about the other friend? Did you make up with her? ARe your ex friend and the arguing friend still matey or not?

oh where to begin, I said something to my friend which she didn't like, It took me 3wks to get it out of her that she was still upset with me, I accepted that I had upset her and apologised again.

After another 2 weeks she was still being funny with me so I wanted to talk about it again, anyway conclusion she didn't want me in her life anymore.

Then my other friend started being distance with me, she had become friends with this other person via me. Anyway got it out of her that this friend had told my other friend everything we had ever discuss with a bit added on the end!! My friend chose to believe this I was devastated.

yes they are still pals I think!

really boring and petty I know!!!!!!!!!!!

But all the same still very upsetting

Well it sounds like she's broken your trust by telling your other friend everything you have talked about.

If you want the kids to be friends enough then maybe make a tentative move?