My husband and I are going through a difficult time. Him more than me. He's not happy on all sorts levels with the way things are going, with work, with our house, with where we live. He is incredibly moody and he is taking it out on me. He has been away on and off a lot over the last 9 months and whenever he is home the atmosphere is dreadful. When its just me and the kids its light and easy. When he home we row all the time because I don't agree with things he says rather than discussing them. When he was going away for work last week we rowed just before going to the airport and all the way to the airport and he said spiteful things like I'm leaving and taking the kids. He asked me a few days ago in a row I need to think about weather I want him here on not... Since then he has rung and acted like nothing is going on. When I said we needed to talk properly he got the hump to bully me out of that statement and then when that didn't work put the phone down (I have asked him not to do this before). When he rang to talk just as I was sitting down for dinner he got the hump again and was rude again to me. I am trying to be calm and not react to his behaviour but I think I have had enough.
I don't work yet but may have a job in the next few week which would support me and my family, my parents own the house we are currently living in (which I have agreed to but from them in six months). We own loads of money but we can, at the moment repay the debt without too much trouble.
Advice.......