I recently fell out with my half sister. Quite badly. She had a horrendous row down the pub with my DH and he slapped her face. I was not there. I know, it was extremely wrong, and it was in front of my neices.
Anyway she sent me a message after saying that she wanted nothing to do with us anymore.
She was pissed and told my DH that he & his friend were nonces (this is a small local pub by the way that she was visiting). There was no reason for her to say this whatsoever.
I want to make it very clear that my DH has never hit anyone female in his life. This is the first time.
Problem.......I am glad really that she is out of my life as I found it a struggle to get on with her. But it is one of the kids birthdays soon and I don't know whether to send a card with a tenner in or what.
I don't want her back in my life either, but am not sure whether or not to do this, as we have been involved in the childrens lives for about 5 years. The child will expect this.
Like I said, I don't want this family back in my life at all and I am worried that by sending a card, I am saying that all is good & well.
I have not spoken to her in 3 months and she was the one who said that she wanted nothing to do with us.