I feel angry and sad and just that things seem so unfair.
My h left me nearly 4 months ago. Claims he didn't love me anymore and that it will never come back. H treated me quite terrible the last couple of months always going to the pub after work, not showing an interest in me the house family life criticisng me and being verbally abusive etc.
He is with someone else who he swears he was seeing after he left. I don't believe this as a couple of people have told me they were seen talking a month before he went. He admits to talking but that is all. I have heard that she would not have anything to do with him while he was still married, in other words leave your wife and i will see you so he must have tried while still with me.
I hear through different sources that he semms to be the man i would have liked him to be. cut down on his drinking, hardly ever goes out and always doing diy at her house.
its just not fair.
How can this happen after 20 years. She is not younger than me so it is not that. i feel cheated and i have kids who miss their dad but he doesnt seem to care. He just says they will get over it. My dd feels sad as she has a dd a similar age and he does things with his new 'family' now.