I have been seeing someone for around 3 months and although most of the time its been great there have been a couple of incidents which have totally put me off like one time I invited him around for dinner, night was going well, I went to toilet and there was this almighty bang on the bathroom door, my heart skipped a beat and then he started kicking and punching the door and shouting that he needed a shit and I had to hurry etc. It was so frightening I actually stayed in there 20 minutes. I told him it was over then and he apologised, bought me flowers, said it was a stupid joke and he was just trying to make me jump (he did! I almost fell off the toilet) and he managed to talk me around. I didnt see him for 3 weeks and after that everything went ok for a while and then he had another mad turn and I said it was over again. Anyway to cut long story short, I gave him one more chance and he invited me around to his mums house last night for a meal. We got there and immediately the house was chaotic, he walked in and called her a retard. The dog was going ballistic and attacked the sofa and pulled off the cushions off, his mum screamed at the dog, bloke screamed at his mum. I was getting ready to leave but his sister turned up with her kids and I didnt want her to think I was leaving because of her so I stayed. Anyway the kids were aged 11 and 9 and they were just as bad, they jumped on the poor woman, pulled her hair, poked her, threw dog food at her, poured coke on her, the adults were all laughing, the food caddy got thrown across the living room floor with all mouldy rotting food going everywhere, cue much screaming at the dog who went after it. I said I felt ill and had to leave and he came out with me and started going on about how I obviously thought I was better than him and his family and I'm "not all that" etc etc. I feel stupid to have given him chance after chance and its putting me off the entire dating thing. Anyway else had a really, really bad date?
Sorry for the name change, feel a bit stupid and don't want it bringing up in other threads.