would you be tempted to confront an ex

[kittya]

If you knew he was in your town on business and was staying about a ten minute walk away? Even if it was a year ago that he rang you and changed his number the very next day? would you be tempted to go to the pub and calmly give him a piece of your mind or, would you rise above it and walk home from work a different way?!!!

Three holidays coming up and loads of festivals. Just need to lose a stone in about 2 weeks!! I am keeping busy. Its just a shame his work brings him down here when Im at a loose end. Will cope though!

why would you put yourself up for rejection again??

The greatest revenge is in living well - not shoving it in his face. Do you realise how sad you would look - supposedly you have moved on but here you are in the local playing to him again??

I presume he's an boyfriend rather than an exhusband because you haven't had to have any contact with him for the past year and that you weren't living together if he could phone you and then end the relationship without seeing you again.
In that case I think the problem is more why you still care what this guy thinks and are interested in his movements enough to know he's coming to your town.
The fact that he is there shouldn't matter. The relationship didn't work, it's over, move on and forget him and find someone who loves you.

He comes here a couple of times a year, all work related. I have been very busy with work so havent had time to think about it. I just need a man of my own. A decent normal bloke, Im open to offers!!

Saw him in Tescos of all places. He didnt recognise me, I just thought he looked very old and abit fragile. Like someones grandad, it seems time hasnt been kind to him. Is that the karma I had hoped for? Walked out before he saw me. Im patting myself on the back.