..... DH has given me ultimatum........ stop drinking else he's out of here..... but only drink cos he a) hates the fact that I'm 3 stone heavier than when we met b) I get stressed out at work and bring it home (but I can't leave cos I've got better penision than him, he's made that clear) and c) a lot of the pressures we have on us he totally delegates to me. SO, I know I need to cut down on the alcohol intake, but when I say "I need your help" ... he says "oh yes, always someone else's fault....." I know it's up to me to cut down on alcohol, but is it unreasonable to expect some support in the stressful areas which lead me to having the odd drink in the first place????