I have just begun a new relationship and I have waited all of my life to find a man like him. He is near perfect, we are happy, we are on the same wave length, have the same beliefs, he treats me like a princess...
So what is the problem? I hear you ask. The problem is I am 10 yrs older than him, my children have grown up and I actually have grandchildren. He doesn't have children and he wants them, it is highly inlikely that I can give him a child, but I just can't give him up and he can't give me up either.
It is heart wrenching, for us both. I can't deny him the chance to have a child that I can't give him but we don't want to end things.
Any advice? is it crazy to think about having a child with him when I am in my early 40's? or am I just setting us both up to be hurt?