Long story short - split from husband nearly 10 months ago. We have DS of 2yr. Split was mainly down to his lack of interest in DS (plus I suspect there was an OW involved although he continues to deny this). Anyway, since then I've gone through redundancy, got another job (ft ), given myself a bit of a makeover re. weight, fitness, hair, wardrobe etc, started to doing voluntary work and spent loads of quality time with DS and making up for lost time with friends that I'd neglected for a long time. Overall, loads of really positive things but there have been times when I have felt absolutely awful to the point of being suicidal. I did go to the doctor but after a really good discussion I didn't go on ad's as I wanted to see how I got on for another month or so. Perhaps that was the wake up call I needed I don't know. Anyway, I've also recently started dating and have been having lots of fun going on dates with really nice guys (no potential new partners yet though). I am really happy, really trying to make the most out of my life and am feeling really positive about the future. The problem is (and I hear you saying everything sounds ok) that I feel that it's almost too good to be true and, even more bizarrely, shouldn't I still be feeling bereft after the end of a 12 year relationship/ marriage and feeling guilty for moving on with my life so quickly? Am I perhaps in denial and sooner or later it's all going to come crashing down? I know there's no set time for getting over a relationship and at the time and for several months afterwards I was distraught. I know it's strange to question myself like this so anyone's thoughts on this would be appreciated.