Posted about this before. Have been friends and had feelings for this person for a while. Didn't know whether to say anything because I was worried he didn't feel the same. Did nothing because I decided I didn't want to spoil things. Anyway matters took themselves into their own hands. Got drunk one night and we ended up kissing etc. Both decided we wanted to stay friends, and that was ok. Then it happened again. Had another talk where he said we should stay friends or we'd end up losing a lot. I spent about 2 weeks getting my head round it, then it happened again. The next day he was off. Didn't say anything. I want to know what's going on. The physical closeness is really nice, which makes it all the more difficult. Don't know what to do. He said before that it was just because he's male, and that he cares for me so doesn't want to do the wrong thing. It was not much more than kissing. Don't know how to sort it out. Maybe some time out?