I have two friends -lovely women - who - individually - I get on with each of them well. When we all meet for coffee, though, as happened yet again this morning, I feel as I might as well have not turned up. They basically just talk to each other, with the occasional glance in my direction, and I often find that my interjections or attempts to join in are ignored. I don't think they're doing this deliberately - it's just the way it happens. I'm happier to have them have a close connection- that's fine, but I do wonder if there's any point me meeting them like this. I just come away feeling I might as well as not bothered and feel upset at being overlooked.