Ex H asked to split about a year ago at his request - I was devastated but coming out of that.
Due to various things I actually moved out of the house with DS while he stayed there - that was agreed, it was fine, being there made me upset.
Few months after split ex H started new relationship with someone from his work - difficult at first, but helped me start getting over the whole thing in the end.
The problem I have is that because of arrangements / picking up bits and pieces, etc I still go back to the old house occasionally and there?s always loads of signs of the new relationship - her undies on sofa / candles all over the place, etc. I?m sure it?s not deliberate as he?s not like that, but surely it?s not that difficult to move that kind of stuff for a few hours?
I find it horrible - accepting he?s moved on is hard enough without seeing it in the home we had built together. In some ways it helps as makes me think a bit less of him though iyswim.
Would it be unreasonable of me to point this out and maybe nicely ask ex H to be a bit more considerate if I?m coming round to sort things out? Or should I bite my tongue and just get on with it knowing we're pretty close to having got everything sorted? Am I being over sensitive?