DP unreasonably jealous all the time

[Siok]

I am considering ending my relationship as DP seems to have deep seated trust issues and I don't think it could improve? He constantly accusses me of being places I havn't been, he checks my phone, if I get a message he wants to know who from. He doesn'tw ant me going out with friends. He tries to discredit friends by saying they sound like chavs/arseholes etc and not at all like me. It will just get worse won't it? not better. If ever we argue he starts bringing up all sorts of nonsense like saying he "knows what I'm upto" as people have told him and that he knows more than I think he does about stuff but I havn't done anything.

I think you have convinced yourself there this relationship is going nowhere except slap-bang into an abusive one

End it

You know you must

Oh blimey, you can see this is very abnormal.

Jealousy at that level is a disease. And scary and dangerous to be around.

It sounds as if you have made up your mind, anyway. This isn't a caring, supportive relationship by the sound of it.

Control freak....get out now while you still have the self esteem to make decisions about it

Yes, it will get worse, not better. Run away, run away!

Yes, run. I sincerely hope you don't have DC with this inadequate, unpleasant fuckup and will be able to cut him right out of your life in one go.

This is not normal, it will never get better no matter what you do.

He is already controlling you.

In this country two women a week are murdered by their (ex)partner.

Get out now.

Run very fast! Find a sane boyfriend!

Please be careful of yourself and get out of the relationship ASAP. He is trying to cut you off from the people who love you, so you will be alone and he can control you even more. If you live with him, just leave while he's out and don't leave a forwarding address.

How are you feeling OP? Is this the response you were expecting?

Run....get out now, it's only going to get worse.