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CRAZYCREW · 02/05/2010 19:45

I have split up with my partner of three years and miss him somuch and just want to look after him, care for him and love him.. I want to tll him all of these things but dare not as just told him cannot cope no more the way we are...

basically we met three years ago, after a year had a baby, he sold his house put money in mine with the intention of us living togther (i have three other children and he a son that lives with him)... he decided the boys did not see eye to eye as had very different upbringing as have i from him lol. He rented for a year.. we saw lots of one another but still would not move in and comit to me. I love him as think of him constant but he has changed and put a barrier up now i am unbale to get through. His family dont like me as they think i have taken him for a ride which I have not by no means. He loves his baby and has him sleeping at his house three nights but its not the same.

He has changed so much he not fun.. he is happy just sitting in his house all day everyday andnver goes out. He is 52 and me 39.

I have sent him and email saying how i hate him, how he is with me and how i hate his life.. he used to be so lovely, caring, would text ring me in morning and now nothing.. is it worth talking with a councsellor tosave or do i just say good bye with a broken heart and move on...

OP posts:
WendyAnnAger · 02/05/2010 23:13

Hey,

What a distressing situation you are in, you poor thing.

Only you can decide what is best for you though. What might be good for you is to wait until the recent and strong emotions that engulf you with this kind of event pass. Then, when you are feeling rational and calm, consider logically about what you really want.

What is it you will want to gain from speaking to someone for support? What will you gain from the actions you take now with him and for you going forward.

You will decide whether to try to recover the relationship or move on, but you may not be ready yet to make that decision. You are allowed to do what you need to, grieve if that is what you need, get it off your chest by sharing, as you have done here, or be angry and fight. It's always your choice

Whatever, you have my sympathy

Wendy Ager
www.getbettercoaching.co.uk

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