My ex is such a car crash...

[BertieBotts]

Will quickly fill you in.

Left XP at the start of December, he was controlling and emotionally abusive. He was totally "devestated" and couldn't cope, etc.

About 2 weeks later, he had a new girlfriend. This lasted about 6 weeks (with them living together) and then she went back to her ex. He was getting drunk and texting me in the middle of the night etc at this point.

Then a matter of days later (less than a week) he got together with this new girl, from what I gleaned from various facebook updates, they met drunkenly in a club, it was "love" and "you're the one" less than 24 hours later.

I gave them 6 months before she would be pregnant. They have been together about 2 months now and guess what half my facebook friends have been commenting on tonight (so which greeted me when I logged in just to innocently catch up on some actual friends)

...Yep, she's pregnant already. Hope they enjoy playing happy families... I shouldn't be amused by this, but I really am.

Car crash is the word, definitely.

Erk - oh dear. Do you have DC with him too?

I'd be laying off FB for a while if I were you.
Looks like you are well shot of him!

Strange how often the "devestated" ones seem to get matched up pretty quickly to someone else.

I had a boyfriend throughout university and I ended the relationship and he was completely distraught . He went on to marry someone else 6 months later!

That was about 20 years ago and he has just left his wife and 3 children for a woman at work (who is 19)

Yes, we have a DS who is 18 months, and his girlfriend has a 2 year old DD, who she has only recently regained custody of (I didn't ask) - so good luck to them, I suppose. I just have a horrible feeling it's all going to go wrong, it's all very well playing happy families at the weekends with two children who don't live with you. I think they might be in for a shock

Yes Mary, funny that

Not just a car crash, but a massive pile up!

You are certainly well rid.