How do you know when to move on?

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I think my 17 yr relationship is dead, but I don't know how you know for sure. We're thinking about starting going to Relate, but DH has jibbed at it a bit because he thinks it's 'too expensive'. I think I just hate him too much to want to stay married... but I have no money and no job and no idea how to make a life for my kids without money. Our dc is disabled and this affects my ability to work. Or maybe it affects my feelings about being able to work, I don't know.
Am in total state of foggy bafflement. How will I know what's the right thing to do?

its difficult but some times you know deep down if you are flogging a dead horse, im afraid there`s no price on your happiness sounds like he thinks the same as you why dont you start by going to or ringing the citizens advice bureau. How old is your ds? I assume you have a family support worker. There is help out there its just knowing where to find it. I hope someone givesyou abit more advice than ive given you goodluck