that you have a new partner? My ex, Paul, who I broke up with 3 yrs back after a 6 month relationship recently got back in touch about a month ago asking to see me. I said maybe, but nothing solid. I fell pregnant to this when I was 18, but miscarried mid-pregnancy.
Paul calls me every once in a while but me never him, just because I dont have credit or think to do it.
The past week another ex, Isaac, who is a lovely guy, treats me like a princess, good sex etc and I decided to make another go of things, even tho its been about 3 or 4 yrs since we broke up. We both feel we have matured and get on brilliantly now. It wasnt him that was the problem before, it was me. I was a total bitch.
Paul just called me before and asked to see me but I told him I was busy for a bit but then he asked if I was seeing someone new and I held back at first, but then he told me he sensed that I was, so I told him I was, and he basically went off on one that I was seeing someone!
It has been 3 years since we broke up, and although I know he may still have feelings etc, I do too, afterall he was my babies father, I think he should accept that I have a new partner and he has no right to go off on one. I wonder if I did the right thing telling him now.
Paul and I also chat regularly on msn messenger and he's always asking if we can ever have another baby and asking when I will be ready. I tell him our miscarried ds is in heaven now and knows we love him very much but we will never have another baby because we aren't together and probably won't ever get together again because we're better suited friends. He says some very nasty things to me when I say this.