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He blames me for everything

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Spartus · 10/04/2010 22:20

I'm really sick of getting the blame for everything by DH. Half the time I don't even know if he realises he's doing it. For instance the sky box will stop working - DH will say "perhaps you knocked it whilst hoovering?" and I've been nowhere near the bloody thing all day. He makes dinner and lets it burn - then says "it's probably because I got distracted as you started talking to me".
The wheelie bin gets stolen - "are you sure you actually brought it in?" yes of course I'm sure!
When he got a toilet roll tube stuck on his nose his reaction was "I don't think that would have happened if you hadn't been messing around"
We're short of money one week "Well, you did buy those crisps for £3.99 instead of the £1.99 ones that I pointed out ... "

Its every little thing and I know its all trivial "little things" but I'm sick of getting the blame for EVERYTHING.

Is anyone elses DH like this?

OP posts:
peekyboo · 13/12/2018 13:58

I'm so glad I'm single.

You get used to this, even when you know it's not your fault. There's a kind of hated behind comments like this, because they're based on the belief you do things that always make life harder and to upset other people. When in fact he's making your life harder and upsetting you.

My ex started the same behaviour on one of our children and not the other. They need a victim because at heart they're a steaming heap of vomit.

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