for those that remember me from 3 weeks ago...... so he came back. no OW. very contrite and sorry... wanting to make a go of things. so we talked and talked and held a sort of limbo for 2 weeks. We have just come back from holiday. 3 major bustups and back to square one. threw everything back in my face again and said that he had come to realise he wasnt sorry but that i was to blame for everthing. He is away again to "think". Feel like running until i run out of road. DS upset, parents upset, Everyone upset.