Please help me let go

[Scorps]

I have to let go of my husband. It's not going to work.

I'm beyond sad about it. I totally adored him, have never seen anyone so beautiful, he always made it better, I've never had that connection with anyone and I doubt I ever will. I meant my marriage vows with every fibre of my being.

Last night we said goodbye.

I need to let him go, set it all free.

I'm so scared of so many things. My future, a new partner one day, if I'm going to have this hole for eternity, of when he sees someone else, I feel terrible about the dcs - my parents have been together 30 years and I thought that's what happened. I have no self esteem, I can't see how anyone will want me esp with 4dc.

I wish I had a time travel machine, though I don't know where in time I'd go.

Please help me.

AF thanks again

Scorps, how are you doing lovely?

Oh I know how you feel Scorps, had a HUGE blub in the garden the other day - fortunately comforted by attractive young man next door (karma eh!!). Cripes ChippingIn - bet the advice was unsolicited aswell! I must say I find AF's advice to you very comforting Scorps - loved my DH he's a gentle and artistic soul - but a cheating, selfish arse awswell pah!

have to agree with all that has been said but it is soooooooooooo hard to let go. Makes you feel like a failure and wonder what if .... what if i had been a bit nicer to him......

cannot imagine my DH with someone else, leading new life together, having DC over to say....

i really feel for you. are you sure there is no hope in the marriage? if not then i guess its just a question of time.... like i would know of course.... but just something i keep telling myself whilst not believing a word of it.

how ya doin', scorps ?

I think AF would disown me if I got back with him, lol. Yes i see what you mean about the two people that one person can become.

I'm ok thanks, sunshine is marvellous and I have a new maxi dress which makes me feel swit-swoo lol

I don't actually feel I could have been better. Yes I could have made more cups of tea but that's about it. He had the cream of it, here.

good girl, scorps

it is great to see you say you couldn't have been better...I like that

btw, I would never disown you

That's good Scorps