No more babies...i do dh doesn't what next?

[nicolamumof3]

I have always wanted another baby since wie had ds3 2.8yr ago. Before we got married last year we discussed this as i knew dh wasn't as keen as me. It was a real deal breaker for me.

We have been together for 5.5yrs i have a ds1 from my first marrieage and then we have two more together. Over the past year Dh has continually changed his mind about having a fourth DC. However now he says 100pc certain no more children.

I don't feel complete..I feel guilty and selfish that im upset..this is upsetting dh and i feel eventually will upset our ds' so how do i get over this desire for another baby? how can i stop before i start to resent dh?

anyone been in this situation. I feel really upset at the thought of not another pg, labour, newborn etc.

You feel upset at the thought of not another labour? blimey.

How old are you? Can you wait 'til he changes his mind again then jump him before he changes it back?

I'm in the same boat apart from I only have one. Every day as I watch her play by herself my heart breaks a little for the sister or brother she should have. Dh had the snip so persuading him isn't and option.

I don't think I can get over the feeling that I'm not complete and that the family isn't complete but I've had to chose between and incomplete family and a broken family. no matter how much I want a sibling for dd I can't bring myself to break up a family.

so no real advice apart from to be grateful you have 3 lovely children