3 in a bed??

[gillhugh]

when me and my partner first got together we had a very adventurous sex life anywhere everywhere etc etc and once after a drunken night out we invited a friend to join us. it was a great night and we had alot of fun but we never did it again and both moved on happily. now 9 years later my DP has brought the subject up and said how much fun it would be to do it again.

Now i no he loves me we have a very happy relationship and trust him but ive had 2 children since last time we did it and dont think i would feel comfortable doing it. although it is a massive turn on i would be comparing my body with hers.
am i being stupid or would you not risk it.

he is not pushing me into it but its what we fantasise together about so i guess he just thinks as ive done it before im not self conscious but i am.

please dont judge me on this

I dont judge you - I sit back and silently watch, shall divuldge info later

no i wouldn't

anyway, ask for one in return with another bloke

quid pro quo

No fun if you feel self conscious. When younger we do things we don't do when older. Just communicate how you feel and do what you want otherwise it can't be good.

don't do it, love

reality...how do you know how old Op is ?

Keep it as a fantasy

If you really want to do it ,you wouldn't be posting about on here and getting on with it.

yes, reality

I couldn't access her profile, that is why I asked you

< also makes a hasty exit >

looky here

Op dispensing her wisdom elsewhere....