Books for the divorcing

[NonnoMum]

Hi - can anyone recommend books/websites for a woamn whose DH is leaving her with 2 little babies?

I want to find one called "What a Twat - you were always too good for him" but that might not be v helpful.

She is an intelligent, beautiful woman and I want to help her self esteem... and her kids...

How about you just tell her that! You sound like a great friend and during this time she will need you to keep things in perspective and try and see the positive side. "It's a new life, it's a new you, go get it.." kind of support. Couples can make divorce as amicable or nasty as they wish. Quite often when clients first come to see me they are understandably full of angst and want revenge. That soon changes with good support and advice. It's about learning to look forward to a new life and getting closure on the past. It's easier said, I know, which is where you come in.

Best regards

Harjit Sarang