I was married, but in Dec '06' we separated & since then we've been living apart.From the time we got married in '02', 'hubby' has always cheated, but we've always managed to patch things up, until '06' when we started living apart. The thing is that 'hubby'has always been in our life(mine & the children) since the separation. He's always there when needed & puts our children 1st. We've also often been intimate & he still tells me that he's hoping that we'll once more be a family unit.
Since the separation, i haven't been in a relationship with any man, even though he's had quiet a few himself. The problem now is that i am getting 'fed up' with hanging around & relying on his 'hopes' of us getting back together because first of all, the intimacy seems to have gone out the window & again, he keeps coming up with excuses like ' lets get to know each other better before getting intimate again'. ( He never thought of that before getting under the sack with me 3wks ago). I am human & i need my emotional as well as my physical needs met. I feel he's taking advantage of the fact that i am not in a relationship yet. I've told him on few occasions that i am moving on, & the next thing, he come running back to me.
Please, any advise on how to handle this situation because i am really up to my neck with this emotional instability. Any advise/suggestion will be highly appreciated.