Am i looking for an excuse not to get back togeter? i broke up with my long term partner. i was lonely i the relatioship because we (me ad dh) always came last, and sometimes he made comments like 'just because you accidentally have a child doesn't say anyting about the status of the relationship.' so i've tossed his arse out. We talked and he wants to try to 'live as married' but i said wait until after the weekend for my decision because i'm still upset. now i'm resentful because dh is sick and i'm lonely and he's gone off to london for a fun time with his mates after telling me he was working all weekend - but isn't it my fault for telling him i wanted to be on my own for the weekend? I kinda at least expected him to check in... he told me he wants to meet up when he's finised is golf tomorrow. Should i tell him to piss off? Or am i being unreasonable now because i'm looking for an excuse?