I met a man on the net.... we have both been in other relationships until January this year. My other relationship was 25 yrs long. He was divorced 4 yrs ago and has had g/f since then.
We have barely chatted for that reason but had similar contacts and been in same group online so I know a lot about him. I have always really liked him.
Anyway we're both single now.
So we are now privately chatting and it's like a flood of chat. I feel such a connection with him and he says all the right things to the point that I'm almost spooked by how right they are. I feel I can be completely honest with him even if it's stuff that normally you'd hide away. I'm not putting on any front and he's accepting the real me. In the last 3 or 4 yrs he's chatted openly in our online group because it was non romantic and therefore he can't undo or say stuff that isn't 'him'. I feel that what I hear is him and I also feel it's exactly what I want in a partner.
We have met 3 times over the last 3 yrs and in a month we are going away for a weekend in Germany. He had a visit planned and I just happened to have a rare weekend without the DC so we have decided to grab that time to see more of each other. He offered me a separate room.
I'm falling head over heels. I am also reeling after a long marriage and am aware of the risk of falling into another relationship so fast.
Advise me please.