My best friend has been swept away by a guy who we all thought was actually very nice. He said and did all the right things, took her places and generally made her feel special after 5 years on her own with young children. One day, before Christmas he rang and told her that he loved her but he was going away for two weeks and that she might hear some not very nice things about him and that she had to ignore them. She was puzzled, left it a week and text him but the text came back. He had changed his phone number. This guy works away alot and through other mutual friends Ive found out hes slept with about six women in the past couple of months. Friend feels led on and as she cant text or phone she wants to write him a short letter. Trouble is she now knows theres a full family as well. Should she write it? I think not, personally.