Feel wary and unsure about a recent experience on a dating website that I've just joined. Someone sent me a msg - 'Hello, how are you' I responded - looked and sounded really nice, and gave him my mobile no. That evening and particularly the next day I was inundated with msgs - he seemed to consider us as being in a relationship with each other - he said it, then the constant requests for photos and phone sex.
I made it clear I wasn't doing either and he backed off a little but is now constantly asking that we meet. We live quite a distance apart. I've just said I'de need to talk some more before meeting up. I've been talking to a male friend about the whole thing and he's convinced it's either a scam or this guy's a nutter, bizarrely I don't know! These are the signs and I wonder if anyone's ever encountered anything similar - full on straight away, I asked him to send photos of himself - he supposedly did but I was unable to access them, he called me from a witheld no. at night - when I asked was this his landline he said no - work phone, and during that call I heard noises in the background that I can only describe as boxes being moved across a floor - but only very faintly, he has quite a strong accent despite claiming he's been in this country since he was 7. He's extremely plausible but there's just something...