My husband told me that there is a woman at work who has created an "awkward" situation for him. It boils down to her appearing to follow him around, blush, and "shut down" when he is around (in a way that he thinks is because she likes him). Not exactly major crimes and neither really consituting sexual harrassment or anything!
I said to him that if he's noticed it then others will have too (he's not that perceptive about these things). He commented that once he looked up and watched her walk across the room and the colleague he was talking to followed his gaze.
He said he feels awkward and it sort of emerged that he finds her attractive too. In fact he had a particular look on his face when he described her that very much reminded me of what he was like when we first got together :-( When I asked him to describe her, his comments included that she doesnt wear perfume, has a rubinsesque figure (which before we had the conversation I had flukely seen he had searched for on google when the predictive search came up), described the way she wears her hair, what its like etc - quite detailed I thought. I've since searched for on Facebook and she is gorgeous.
We had a longish chat where I said it's perfectly normal to fancy other people and was basically completely understanding about it - but also pointed out the pitfalls of affairs, the hurt it could cause, the fact that this woman is probably a minx as she knows he's married and could also cause problems for him at work so he needs to cover himself in case she gets funny or anything.
However - I feel quite rubbish about the whole thing really, mostly just feelings of sadness. I'm not sure whether I'm overreacting or perhaps should have been a bit more 'angry' at him??
Any comments or advice appreciated.