need ideas for our new weekly 'sex nights'

[juicychops]

me and dp have decided that starting from next wednesday we are going to start having a 'sex night' where we take in turns of thinking of different theme nights, games, sex related things to do.

im not good at thinking of ideas so please can you provide me with some. id be very grateful

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We take a bottle of white wine to bed. Dribble it over each other. OOOOooohh I know, warm chocolate.....Mmmmmm

The problem is though SIT, what's sexy and a turn on to one person can be ridiculous or offensive to another, some couples seem clueless as to what the other person would like.
I didn't know for over 20 years that being "subby" in bed was my thing, ( sex was good but there was an element missing IYSWIM) let alone that my husband would take to being in control quite so well. It can take a lot of guts to say exactly what it is that you want.

I find being "teased" the biggest turn on, my DH is excellent at playing "hard to get", he can get me all fired up then just stop and say that I now have to wait until "later". Some women would probably find that incredibly annoying or even a bit cruel but it works for us.

subintraining, think you 'get' what i mean

in life im quite vanilla but in the bedroom im not!

me and dp do have 'same' sex quite often, but we do have nights where its different and we do different things different rooms on different items of furniture etc

we went through a patch for months where we didn't see eachother for more than 1 night per week due to his work (dp doesn't live with me)but he's been coming round a lot more lately so we are getting our sex life back on track and want to think of some new ideas and a night that we take in turns of planning for the other one iyswim.

we are open to most things really and we are comfortable with eachother to feel free to say if we are not happy with something. we are pretty good at knowing eachothers limits and tastes anyway

subintraining - don't suppose you fancy starting a thread with said suggestions...? Don't want to hijack this one, but a conv I had with DH the other night makes me want to know more suggestions!

Flame - the lovehoney forums are an eye opening place, to say the least, but you might just find some useful information in amongst some of the (quite extreme ) S+M stuff.

The only problem with places like that is that I often think people are only saying things for shock value and are trying to out do one another in "kinkiness".

Flame, i dont mind you hijacking the thread

id quite like to hear some more suggestions too [smil]

oops meant