Divorce?

[SuziePanna]

what sort of effect would divorce have on my child?

That's a bit of a broad question.

Depends what sort of relationship you and your H have now, and how you manage things if you divorce.

I often wished my parents would divorce as they were clearly not happy, but they're still going.

It's just constant arguements and don't know what will damage my DS more a divorce of the arguements

xx

thankz for the advice anyway

Suzan

what age is your child?

i think it is almost more pertinent to ask what effect staying married would have on you and your child

staying together for the child, subjugating all your needs is not healthy either

it isn't a H.

Cheers Suzie, advertise it on Mumsnet- did you forget that you added me on here? I guess this is the final straw. I'm LEAVING

WTF? you can't add people on MN

have you forgotten it's not facebook

permit me a big fat [ face

PLEASE don't get like this on here.

and late night at the office HEY/????!!!!

YOURE ON MUMSNET

and i slave over our kids and cooking and cleaning!!!!!!!

and i know all about Liza!

How could you?????

Your such a git sometimes!!!!!!

Is rusty 9?

the pair of you are pathetic

go and take your stupid , petty , not even funny or intelligent trolling elsewhere

and no-one's called Liza.

Oh dear God I'll come back when it's bedtime.

I'm not sure about divorce for you Suzie and Rusty - are you even old enough to get married?

I think your doll will survive you two separating. Just. You can always put it through therapy.

If you are going to be 2 people - don't make the mistake of having both of you end words with z instead of s. - thankz on this one from 'suzie' and boyz on another from 'rusty'.

and on another thread you talk about your boyfriend and a sandwich. Yet here you are. neither of you the boyfriend. So where did he go?

You're not very good at this. I am not against trolling, I'm offended by piss poor trolling.

Are you saying me and Matt aren't married?

God!! thats for the support guys!

I though of all people, here is where i would get support!!

Well obviously not! Mumsnet just seems to be a group of vicious women set in their niche groups only out for themselves!

All i wanted was somewhere where i could relax and talk to people maybe going/ gone through the same thing to give some advice

BUT NO!!!!

so you're the woman, and rusty is the bloke? Rusty who was talking about his boyfriend demanding sandwiches?

I think the 2 of you need to talk - rusty has a secret...

Rusty's a prick that makes up shit about everything.

I married him thinking he was a high flyer city banker, he works as some shitting middle man for 19 grand a year

So you're posting from different computers then? Not namechanging from the same computer?

Never done this before, but I'm going to ask MNHQ. Just cos the kids are out and I'm bored

Yeah Matts at work and i'm at home

Well Suzie, you still haven't posted the age of this child you are so concerned about.

He's 18 months

Do you have more than the 18 month old? Above, you have referred to "slaving over our kids".

I thought you only wanted to know about DS

He's 18 months and DD is 8 months

so who hell chelsea?

Seriously, you sound 10. 11 tops.

Yeah well, I was going to give a reasoned response until your post about what 'rusty' earns. My DH works bloody hard for his employer for the grand total of £ 17 K a year. And he hates it. And guess what, I love him all the more because he still gets up every morning and goes to do a job he hates for shit money because he knows that we have to pay the bills. If you only married 'rusty because you thought he was going to be your meal ticket, then actually, he is probably going to be a lot better off without you.

Chelsea??? what you going on about?