Please forgive me for offloading here.
I am trying to illuminate all the very weird stuff that has happened to me.
Last year as my H started to behave in an increasingly strange way, I decided to ring two or three of his mates to take him out for a pint, and try to get him to talk, to offload. He has had a lot of difficulty at work.
I rang three of his mates, two of whom then did take him out for a pint.
The third is someone that I have known on and off, at work, for twenty five or so years. Much longer than I have known my H. He has been friends with H for a long time.
Instead of going for a drink, he turned on me, and said that he never wanted me to ring him ever again, That we had never been mates and had just worked together a couple of times.
Well I am flummoxed by this. It's just not true!
My marriage is falling apart and this so called friend seems to be doing everything in his power to make sure that it does fail
This "friend" went behind H's back to take work off H. His excuse when found out, was to say that he didn't think H wanted to do that work anymore.
He sent H a text to his thEn fiancee to H by mistake, saying that he was going to get rich off the back off H with a potential conract, that in the end H didn't get anyway.
I truly am surrounded by nutters. Unless it is me after all.