2 years ago me and DP and my son made the decision to move to my DP's home town, reasons involving work and some personal issues. These issues have now resolved themselves and I'm desperate to move back to my home town, we both are, I think. We have both agreed it's where we want to be, if we won the lottery we'd be there now. I would move tomorrow, but DP, understandably, as the breadwinner is concerned about how we will cope financially and wants to have some financial security before we move. I know we will be fine, rent is a bit higher but we would cope, we also have very supportive families and I'm happy to make sacrifices. Also we came here with absolutely NOTHING and we've survived.
My issue is that we are just wasting time being somewhere we don't really want to be, DP is self employed so it seems pointless him building up his business here if we are going to move. I just want to get on with living, instead of working to live IYSWIM, how do I persude encourage him to just bite the bullet and go for it?