aaarrghhh
Have namechanged for this
I do love my dh but have realised that I am the only one who ever organises anything that either gets us out of the house or actually does anything that needs to be done.
The last time we had leave together, we didn't go on holiday because we needed to sort out the house (there are still boxes we haven't unpacked) but I got a cold and was a bit rundown so wasn't in my usual 'let's do this' attitude and I have just realised that at the end of the week, we had achieved nothing, gone nowhere and not done anything that needed doing before we went back to work.
Dh thinks this is marvellous but of course, what happens is that I end up trying to organise everything while I'm working which ends up with me getting stressed.
So I decided I would have a break and not organise anything only to get to now (a few months down the line) and find out that nothing has been done because of course, dh won't do anything off his own back arghhhh!
I'm just a bit tired of it. If I didn't suggest outings, we would never leave the house. I have told dh I want him to start taking more a role in this and he says yes but then does nothing!
I'm not asking for solutions, think I just need a cup of tea!