I knew my husband was seriously flirting but he ridiculed me and made out I was imagining it. He would not talk about it. Other people did comment saying they felt sorry for me. I felt very humiliated. I later caught him red handed sending photos of himself via e mail to one of the women with whom he flirts. He had her and at least one other woman on Skype and was constantly e mailing and texting several single women. He bought them gifts and even lent one his car, which was his pride and joy. He now says he has ceased this behaviour. He says that at no time was sex involved, that he only wanted to be popular. He has lied constantly and I don/t know what to believe. I am not in a position to leave him. He seems to have compartmentalised our marriage. He is a good provider. He thinks that that makes him a good husband. I feel very bitter at the lies and deception and the humiliation. He appears to have stopped contacted the women by e-mail but now they are mailing him trying to resume the relationship. I want to feel better. What can I do?