Withdraw post

[scoutandjem]

I am in shock said too much. Need post to be withdraw now. Thank you.

OK no problem, sorry - try to get whole thread deleted and look after yourself

scoutandjem - you need to go back to your post and click on Report on the right hand side of the blue bar that has your name on. You will get a box where you can put your request to have your post deleted.

Report the whole thread, S&J. Ask MNHQ to delete the thread.

Take care, hope that you find a way of dealing with your problems.

Thank you. I am so stupid though saying stuff which would make other injured parties know who they are. I do so much apprecaite your advice and love mn and all the people on it (have had small glass of wine so a bit more gushing than normal!)

I will be fine, my children will be fine and I'll figure something out. x

how are you today?

Thank you for asking. DH slept on floor last night, hes downstairs now, I told him it was over but he refuses to accept this. Kids have friends round so need to pull myself together.Friends have been amazing, two of my best mates are guys so gave me more food for thought.

I am still in shock that they could both do this to me - best mate and DH -Feel v stuck. V confused I really didn't think he would ever do somrthing like this. Have taken rings off and trying to figure out how I cam make my life and childrens life work without him - I'm practical like that.

Suggest your DH needs therapy for the drinking and everything else. Give yourself time (and space if you can get it) and don't do anything whilst you are still in a state of shock.

Get as much help as you can in RL and do what you want to do - you will be getting a lot of conflicting advice from everyone.

Good luck

so sorry don't neglect how you are feeling in among all the practicality