Happy Valentine's, Me!

[ItsGraceAgain]

I love me. OK, I criticise too much and I really AM sorry for it, every time! All that procrastination does get on my nerves, but I know I shouldn't nag. Forgive me? Aww, thanks.

Thanks, too, for the delicious meal every night, and always knowing what I fancy for breakfast. I really couldn't wish for a better wife - and I promise, whenever I think the house needs cleaning, I'll do it.

I love that goofy smile first thing in the morning. I love that unladylike laughter. Hell, I even laugh at those middle-aged farts! (I must be in love) ... And of course, no-one else could ever know so exactly how to make me happy in bed!

Yep, I'm a keeper

I love me too ! I realised it when i was 40 and it was wonderful. It was just like a light turning on in my head. I told dh, thought he'd be pleased but he didn't even react. He's left me now but I know that i'm a fantastic , wonderful person, have an amazing relationship with my teanagers, loyal friends etc. I'm a good woman, like so many of us on MN. I feel no guilt for anything Ive done and have no "sense of duty" Unlike my parents who seam racked with both. Don't see them anymore due to their lack of loyalty when H left.

Though i'm torn appart at the loss of my 27 yr relationship, I am happy with myself and really do love myself and after years of put downs and self loathing it's a wonderful feeling.

I "look after myself" nobody else will.

Self esteem needs maintaining frequently but is vital because I'm worth it, as the adds say, and so are you.

Ahhh, that feels better, now I'm going to clean the bathroom, been putting off for far too long.

Thanks Grace and happy V day to you.x

Lovely! We are, aren't we?!

I am so relieved that VD just washes over me now I'm single. I hated it when I was with my x. It felt like secretly being gay in a straight world.

awww, that's soo sweet, you really are lovely!

i am too, we all are, happy V day to us all!

Yes we are,

urgh VD....that sounds horrid.

Am going out for dinner with a good friend now.

I helped her find a new job and she wants to thank me.

Table for 2 tonight. They'l prob think we're gay. I rly wish i was. So many great women, so many crap men.I really do think they are from another planet, they're so wierd,selfish, smelly, annoying.......... So why do i still want one ? Sooo much.

Big sigh. x