Feeling shaky after ex's comment!!!

[norksinmywaistband]

Please advise me, I need some more heads in on this one!!
Is he fucking me around again or is this a threat.
TBH it was the implication and tone of what he said that has got to me www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/910463?pagingOff=1#18536027

He definately meant to scare you. Don't let him take your kids.

Thanks for the reply Glad - I am talking over on the other thread.

Have answered on the other thread. Report him to everyone (police, solicitor etc) for having made threats, change your locks and if he shows up, call the police to remove him. Don't allow him to see the children.

He has threatened to kill them. Sorry to be so blunt and state something so awful, but that is what he is threatening. And please think on this, if he was just saying it to frighten you, then he deserves the full weight of the law, to be arrested, to be forbidden unsupervised contact and to be forbidden all contact for the moment. Because it's such an awful thing to say.

it is awful asking someone to leave and them refusing....horrible...

dont let him in your house again.

agree with others - you have to take this seriously a - call solicitor and police

solicitor can file urgently with court TODAY for prohibitive steps/non molestation order etc .

and DONT let him take the children til he has had mental assessment - he has already admitted to being unstable.

if he was bluffing then he will need to admit that... either way it's threatening.

have you friends/family who can come saturday when/if he turns up?

CALL THE POLICE!!! Please...do it for your children.....

Sorry that you've got to deal with this, norks.

For your own peace of mind, you have to act as if he means it. Lots of good advice here: time to involve solicitor and police.

I have an ex who has made lots of vague but terrifying threats, and he's never done anything particularly bad (so far). I've put it all on record with my solicitor. He needs to learn that threats are wrong in themselves, even if he has no serious intention of carrying them out.

Norks - I hope by now you have called your lawyer, the police, some friends and a lock smith - you need all of them! Thinking of you x