have just been away for the weekend to stay with relatives of my husbands.my husbands grandma was there,she was feeling a little upset was in alot of pain because her back was unexpectadely hurting her,at the first chance she could,when all the family were out the room,she blurted out to me how worried she was about her back pain and she knows she should have her prolapse sorted and she knows she should loose weight {she is morbidly obese}she knows her knees are a problem because of her weight and that her back has probably gone because she walks with a wobble and rocks side to side very strangely,i have heard all of this before but then she pops into the equation that for the last 2 months shes been bleeding from inside her vagina on and off.now i'm not very close to her we get on fine she has 4 daughters 2 of whom she is close to and 2 she isnt,i dont get on with any,they are a very toxic family,thats a whole other story! i told her she must see her dr about the bleeding she said she will.the following morning her backache had gone she was elated, i got chance to corner her and insisted she see a dr about the bleeding sha was very dismissive and back to being distant with me and i know shes going to ignore the bleeding,what do i do?