I need advice on how to help a manto last longer?

[newme2010oroldme]

So I'm seeing a new guy, and when we sleep together he always drinks alochol. Last time we selpt together he didn't drink and come really quickly. Then said he normally drinks as it makes him last longer.

I like him alot and feel that I have some chemistry with him, so am trying to think of ways to make him last longer.

I'm so glad valentines day is coming up, as thinking of gettting him one of those ring things, but have never used one before. And I would feel weird to buy one for a new man on a normal day...

Any other tips? Or can anyone recommend a ring that is really good?

Squeeze the base of his penis. You have to do it quite hard (like, if someone squeezed you that hard, it would hurt). You need to squeeze for 30seconds - 1 minute, which feels like a long time at the - umm, moment. But you can keep on doing whatever you were doing, as long as you can reach!

Gosh, it's my night for blushing, isn't it?!

Oh - and, if you know Pilates, teach him. The same muscles do the same things in both men and women, if you get my meaning

Oh god, if I start squeezing him really hard, he might think I'm weird...

I clicked on this wondering "what's a manto?"

Sorry I've only just notice that... Anyway got any advice?

Sadly no! I just feel stupid! But I think the earlier poster is right about the squeezing, after all it's pretty much what a ring would do.

Good luck

Me too Dorothea, presumed the Manto was on it's last legs.

I imagined a reptile for some reason although I guess that would be in Pets not Relationships.

Good luck OP

Did he make any effort to control himself or did he just come when he wanted to?

I was married to someone like this, it never got any better.

Can I change the thread title? Sorry for the confusion

He didn't exactly make an effort to stop himself but did seem embarressed..

Im seriously wondering if your seeing my ex.
I would be concerned that he made little effort to stop himself to be honest, its not on unless your 15, its not hard for a man to stop himself, he must do it regularly when hes wanking.

Without being intrusive, did you get yours?
You say YOU are thinking of ways to make him last longer. Is HE thinking of ways to make himself last longer or is he happy to just come when he wants?

Would also be a bit concerned that he claims he drinks to make himself last longer, theres viagra available !

Yes agree it's a bit worrying. Tread carefully. Hope it works out though.

LOL shineon

I read the title and thought "does she mean mango?"

I'm not sure if he is thinking of ways to last longer or not... We have only been seeing each other for a little while, so not really at the stage of having long conversations about sex.

Ok can someone please tell me how to change the thread title?

I'd stick with the Manto newme.

I reckon you'll get more passers by clicking to see what a manto is and hopefully they'll have some useful tips / advice.

Didnt know you could change the thread title.
If hes not arsed about making sex more enjoyable i dont think i could be arsed to sleep with him again.
Frankly its his problem and one he needs to resolve , any sort of toy or technique wont help in the long run.

Id be alarmed by any adult man who hasnt learned to control himself and uses booze as a way to stop himself coming.

Met my ex when i was very young and he was so bad he would come in his pants.Then followed years of unsatisfatory sex with severe premature ejaculation and stinky booze breath.

I am genuine...

diginfied - he does not usually come that quickly, and he deoa make an effort in other ways, but I didn't think he actually tried to stop himself from coming. And I dont think he is that bad that he would come in his pants...

Sounds like you need a chat then instead of a ring.