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What happens if you go the WA route and move out?

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snowkitten · 03/02/2010 21:01

i am in a dire sutuation - no physical violence but dh is an alcoholic (in denial), depressive, totally unliveable with. dd is traumatised by him though wants to love him. ds is only little so a lot of stuff evades him. I have to act but I want to know what happens. Injunction over safe house? I cannot take any more. he is a controlling, self pitying bully who cares for no one though he offers lip service to this iyswim. He rants, throws stuff, makes the children cry. he is, in short, a total nightmare and my lo's and i are stuck in too. he will not accept help, not accept he has a problem. It is horrendous and I have had enough. Your advice, experience welcome please

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littlemissfixit · 04/02/2010 02:22

Go and speak to WA, this is abuse snowkitten and you need to leave now, they should be able to give you a place of saftety and re- house you.

This is emotional and verbal abuse. Please dont let it get to the point where he hits either you or the kids when hes drunk.

Please keep writing, i'll check this thread regularly.

snowkitten · 06/02/2010 20:40

lmf - thank hyou. Unfortunately, I have posted this thread several times so it is diff to keep up! I will stick to one of te threads, yo uwill find me there....sorry for confusion.

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